God this is a doozy. I swear my life feels like a movie right now. Sorry for the Beauty And The Beast Characters Friends Shirt weird formatting, I’m on mobile and this is my first time posting on a sub like this. I am planning on proposing to my girlfriend of 3 years (26F). Now, I suck at picking out jewelry. When it came time to pick out a ring, I consulted my girlfriends best friend Justine (fake name). Justine and I are quite close and she knows my girlfriend better than anyone, including me. So, when my girlfriend when out to visit her sister and baby nephew, I invited Justine over to the house to help pick out a ring. Justine and I looked through a few catalogs but decided it was a dead-end and it would be better to go to professionals at a jewelry store. It isn’t out of the ordinary for my girlfriend to meet up with people out of the blue like that for shopping, lunch, etc. She’s a very spontaneous person and loves making plans on the fly. So ordinarily, I would have believed this text in a heartbeat. However, obviously this had to be a lie. When she came home she acted completely normal, and I played along but it’s been really hard to act like everything’s fine. Looking at her kills me. I don’t know what to do. My girlfriend and I have zero trust issues and we tell each other everything, so this lie is killing me. I want to ask her about it so bad, but if I tell her I knew she was lying, I’d have to explain why, and I really don’t want to do that.

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What do I do? I know she lied to me but I don’t know how to confront her about it. Should I just forget it? This won’t stop gnawing at me. Please help!. I’m sorry for the lack of responses, it’s been a Beauty And The Beast Characters Friends Shirt hectic day and there’s a lot of comments. Thank you to everyone who has commented so far, I appreciate them all!!. sorry again for the lack of responses, guys. It’s really been a crazy day. My parents are moving and I’ve been helping them. Also, I’ve never experienced this many comments on a post in my life!! I know you say you can’t tell her why you know, but I honestly think you should. You don’t want this to bug you forever and propose to a girl that could be potentially hiding something. Just say you were hanging out with Justine because you need help with a gift, so you know she wasn’t with her. And see what she says. Trust and communication are important and it would suck to know you propose to a girl who could be doing you wrong, but also just as bad to sit there and let that lie eat you alive. You could just not bring up the proposal and simply say we were picking out some jewelry. You don’t have to blow the whole wad. Maybe she was getting something for you. Just tell her and ask her what’s up. Yea, just say you were picking something out for her birthday, or that you were organizing a romantic present and that the friend was helping you.

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However, if she presses, I would admit you were looking for a ring. It would be sad to ruin the surprise, but honesty is key. Best of luck! I don’t think he should be pressed into telling her that he was picking out a ring. Also, he doesn’t want to ruin the surprise. It’s fine just to say that he needed Justine’s help with something, which is true. On the Beauty And The Beast Characters Friends Shirt another hand, two individuals should probably have had a serious conversation about marriage, what it entails for their future, whether or not they would want children, and the long term complexities before a guy(or gal) pitches the question. You want to make sure things are right before making those kinds of commitments. Hopefully, it’s something as simple as a name brain fart text and nothing worse. I was going to comment the exact same thing. Surprise proposals are never a good idea. Better to say you hope to get married in general terms and ask the person how they feel about it. Then once you know set up a surprise proposal for a later time. You don’t even need a ring for the proposal. I think rings should be picked out together anyhow because you want to get an idea of want they like and get their ring size. Especially since you don’t want them to end up like this here Now OP, for confronting them on their lie, trust your gut, if whatever reason they give you doesn’t feel right get out of the relationship now. Source: My own life experiences.

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